Roxy Tickle Hurts Trans Rights

You are not a woman.

Tickle vs Giggle. It sounds like a joke.. But it is NOT! It’s a case that will go down in history as a fraud in my opinion. The whole case is really about a male suing a female over an app that is a women-only social media app that allowed users to connect, share, and interact with each other. The app was intended to be a safe space for women to discuss their experiences and have a refuge from men. BUT oh no that’s “transphobic’ in Roxy Tickles opinion!

Roxy Tickle a male who transitioned to live as a woman in 2017, then decided that he has changed his sex when that is impossible. How do I know, well I am a female who transitioned to live as a man BUT never changed my sex and I transitioned 32 years ago. This is why when Tickle said “ hoped the case would be healing for trans and gender diverse people". I was very very upset. This case is not healing for anyone BUT Tickle who went after Sall Grover the owner of the app because Sall saw this male trying to impersonate a female and called Tickle out! Which she had every right to do.

Let me back track a bit here just for some background on why I am upset and that this will not only hurt “transsexual rights” but also women’s rights.

If you are here reading this I am assuming you know my background as a transsexual and that I do not align with this new trans agenda that “trans women are women” and “Protect Trans kid” nonsense. All of that is ideologically based and not fact based. I believe in facts and that includes biology, which is the whole bases of anything transsexual. I have lived this way for 32 years. Had extensive therapy and it was a last resort not the first thing I did when I said to my therapist “I feel like a man” and she pushed back for two years with “what does feeling like a man mean” which was such a great question and one I cannot even answer today, but what she did see was I would benefit from medical transition and I have. One of the healthiest things a trans person can do is acknowledge their biology and know that you do not change sex you change appearance, Big difference!

You cannot lie to yourself or even the world when you transition as it will eventually catch up with you and your transition will become unhealthy. In fact you might decide to go back to your original state, it is why we see so many detransitioners today. I believe this lie of “trans women are women” was the start of all this insanity people like Tickle have now bestowed on us!! A big fat lie.

Tickle knows they are lying and thus why this makes it even more disgusting for me as a transsexual. Tickle says they are doing this for the “rights of trans people and gender diverse” No you are not, you are a narcissistic male who should have just transitioned and found spaces that would accept you BUT NO you had to invade a space you were clearly not welcomed in. How do I know this, again my time living this way has afforded me knowledge that Tickle does not have nor want. I have not been welcomed in female space and or male space many times over in my years of transition. I learned this important thing, you can’t always get what you want and when you transition you better know this or you will get resentful and turn out like Tickle, a very angry self absorbed person who demands that the world respect their choices or else. Does’t work that way, Tickle.

Recently my friend Sall Grover sent me this screen shot of Tickle tagging me in a post trying to prove that they are a woman because they had their birth certificate changed. OMG I burst out laughing as if Tickle thinks they can pull one over on me, one of the oldest trannies on the block. BTW let me remind you ,Tickle, I have traveled the world helping actual trans rights and getting people to accept us for years, which they were until you decided that you were a woman and can push women around, even take over their space. I also changed my birth certificate to reflect male all knowing that this was just so I could have rights that I needed but never ever using it to take anyones space but more to join the space. I like to say being invited to a seat at the table. Invited being the key word.

What I am trying to say here, I hope I am making sense, is Tickle is not helping trans rights in any way shape or form. Trans rights are not about taking rights from others, trans rights are about wanting to exist. That is all. And I have existed like this for a long time and most everyone has accepted me all across the world. Tickle is doing the opposite in taking from you, pretending they care about others. Yet they sued GIGGLE-Sall Grover for $200,000 for damages? What damages? Your EGO! You made this all about you and it is all about you. I as a transsexual feel very embarrassed to even be attached to trans anything when it has come to people like you.

I do have skin in this game from all sides. I am a female who was diagnosed with gender dysphoria many years ago and had the privilege, yes it is a privilege, to transition to look male, change my documents to reflect this so I could be a “man” but that does not mean I hate women. I have learned to embrace that part of myself I hated for so many years all because I became this person who can now love myself. Learning not to hinge myself on making sure you validate me everyday! Because you will not and that is actually ok. People like Tickle are misguiding, not understanding what transsexualism really is, not taking responsibility for themselves and their hurt feelings. If you need to be around women maybe respect them. Why not start your own “Trans Woman app” and if women are interested in you then they will come.

Just to remind you Tickle, you were socialized as a male. You have nothing in common with these women of GIGGLE, hell I have more in common than you do and I would never step foot on that app! It all just feels like narcissism and misogyny to me. I just cannot believe anyone in a court of law would make a judgement like this. Throwing women’s rights and trans rights back a million years!