This is beautifully stated! And I have never seen you say you represent "the trans community" - I think people just get mad when they see someone who disagrees with them, so they project something that never happened because it's the only thing that props up their invalid arguments. They need to project falsities onto you first before they can continue with their outrage, otherwise they wouldn't have a leg to stand on. These people are professional victims. They need to invent a problem just so they can whine about something.
I don't know what's happening today, but I was never accepted by the online trans community. They have always hated me for being okay with my biology, even 25 years ago. But in real life? The 1990s were the best times, hanging out with all the LGBT peeps in the Bay Area, SF, everywhere. The internet is a 3-ring circus.
I blame the internet for the nastiness we see today. People not only don't act like that in person (they'd get clocked every day if they did), but the internet literally shaped this generation into monsters because they can lash out from the safety of their device and never be truly held accountable.
You do have a powerful voice, and people are afraid that others might listen to you and agree with you. So they have to scream as loud as they can to discredit you because they have no valid arguments against what you say. In a world full of delusional people, be the heretic with the loudest voice. They may burn you at the stake, but the message will reach the right people!
Thank you for reading and your lovely response. Seriously! Its so crazy making haha. I just needed to vent for a minute. And yes the internet created total monsters. It's crazy to watch my " fiends" get sucking into the mouth.
It's incredibly strange. I'm a 36 year old trans man. Just 2 years on T and 1 year post top surgery. I'm the most left of my family by far, and somehow according to the "trans community" i'm alt-right because I agree with a lot of what you say. I feel like i'm stuck in the middle. But I no longer give a rat's ass. Critical thinking and having thoughts of one's own has gone out the window, and things have gotten insane. Thank you for speaking your own truth.
I don't always agree with what you say but I always feel that I benefit from listening. Speaking as a gender non-conforming Gay man, it's a pleasure to have your perspective and speculate what life would've been like for me if I'd chosen a similar path. "You and me/We're both the same/But you call yourself by a different name" (Donna Summer, Bad Girls, 1979).
I know this is a tall order, but I really wish I could understand why you felt the need to become a trans man instead of remaining a Lesbian. The physical risks of HRT are undeniable, and they were even greater when you transitioned. What do you get from taking these risks rather than remaining a Lesbian? You can be Lesbian and still play football, lift weights, or do anything else associated with male gender. Why is being Trans better than being Lesbian? Is it just a matter of taste, like chocolate vs. Vanilla?
Congratulations on having a literary agent and a writer assisting you craft and share your writing for your book. I appreciate you and your experience(s)!
Sticking strictly to the literature. I'm refering to 100 years of sexology. The research by Ray Blanchard and Fruend before him. My own experieve as a homosexual transsexual. The new type which has emerged due to gender ideology over the last 10 years.
No their isn't a transsexual or gynandromorphs child.
Their has been and still is within the literature. Sex non conforming usualy boys, and the DSM. Those that were aware that they didn't fit within the expectations of their sex. Importantly prior to the onset of tanner stage one.
They will in all circumstances have attraction to men. In science we call this homosexuality.
If that persisted into adulthood past tanner stage 3 onwards. We call it persistent homosexual gender identity Disorder.
The term now used by mainstream sexologists is, Early Onset.
Blaire fits this from her accounts of their childhood, as did myself.
When the likes of Alexis Blake say that they now in the mid 20s says that they hadn't heard of trans untill they were 13. Raises alarm bells. They were in a happy egalitarian gay identity relationship.
What are we looking at. What influence did social media play, and would they of transitioned before social media and queer theory.
Blaire was probably enevitable given her early history.
So was I.
Most including the majority of the autohetersexual females not.
Most including most of the autoheterosexual males not.
I refer to this as organic and non organically induced.
Thank you for sharing this! I appreciate your willingness for dialogue. I guess I have a major disagreement however:
“I always tell you the difference between a transsexual and transgender is transsexuals want to just fit in, pass as we say, know who we are and move on with life.”
I guess I just don’t agree. Most of these trans activists want to fit in and pass, and most “gender critical transsexuals” want all the same demands the transgender activists want: 1. Other people to let them in opposite sex spaces 2. Other people to call them their cross-sex pronouns of choice and a man if they’re a woman/woman if they’re a man. 3. To redefine sex as stereotypes 4. To redefine feelings as reality. Sure, maybe some trans people kindly ask to be called their opposite-sex pronouns, or to be let in opposite-sex spaces, and others scream/demand it: but both treat refusals like an attack or insult, and all think that what you do, act like, look like, or feel like defines your gender- which it factually doesn’t. I guess the idea that nouveau-transgender people have caused this backlash bc they’re doing it all wrong is denialism- I think they’re actually taking the work of transsexuals (who proselytized and sold their transitions just like the trans influencers of today and used pretty much the same language and had the same demands) are just bringing all that to its logical conclusion and being blamed for all of it. Like, no, the autistic teenagers with blue hair screaming about needing gender affirming care are not responsible for this. People who started selling and proselytizing their transsexual identities in the 80’s and 90’s are. I just think blaming young people and people who are stranger than you is a human instinct but ultimately a denial of one’s responsibility.
God forbid you’re a real person who thinks for yourself and doesn’t make being trans your whole personality. Small-minded people are judgmental. Reasonable people are open-minded.
Hello. I appreciate that you have been courageous enough to speak out. Your status lends immense credibility. If not you then who would be credible enough to speak critically about a trans person's experience?
This is beautifully stated! And I have never seen you say you represent "the trans community" - I think people just get mad when they see someone who disagrees with them, so they project something that never happened because it's the only thing that props up their invalid arguments. They need to project falsities onto you first before they can continue with their outrage, otherwise they wouldn't have a leg to stand on. These people are professional victims. They need to invent a problem just so they can whine about something.
I don't know what's happening today, but I was never accepted by the online trans community. They have always hated me for being okay with my biology, even 25 years ago. But in real life? The 1990s were the best times, hanging out with all the LGBT peeps in the Bay Area, SF, everywhere. The internet is a 3-ring circus.
I blame the internet for the nastiness we see today. People not only don't act like that in person (they'd get clocked every day if they did), but the internet literally shaped this generation into monsters because they can lash out from the safety of their device and never be truly held accountable.
You do have a powerful voice, and people are afraid that others might listen to you and agree with you. So they have to scream as loud as they can to discredit you because they have no valid arguments against what you say. In a world full of delusional people, be the heretic with the loudest voice. They may burn you at the stake, but the message will reach the right people!
Thank you for reading and your lovely response. Seriously! Its so crazy making haha. I just needed to vent for a minute. And yes the internet created total monsters. It's crazy to watch my " fiends" get sucking into the mouth.
Big love, Buck
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It's incredibly strange. I'm a 36 year old trans man. Just 2 years on T and 1 year post top surgery. I'm the most left of my family by far, and somehow according to the "trans community" i'm alt-right because I agree with a lot of what you say. I feel like i'm stuck in the middle. But I no longer give a rat's ass. Critical thinking and having thoughts of one's own has gone out the window, and things have gotten insane. Thank you for speaking your own truth.
I don't always agree with what you say but I always feel that I benefit from listening. Speaking as a gender non-conforming Gay man, it's a pleasure to have your perspective and speculate what life would've been like for me if I'd chosen a similar path. "You and me/We're both the same/But you call yourself by a different name" (Donna Summer, Bad Girls, 1979).
I know this is a tall order, but I really wish I could understand why you felt the need to become a trans man instead of remaining a Lesbian. The physical risks of HRT are undeniable, and they were even greater when you transitioned. What do you get from taking these risks rather than remaining a Lesbian? You can be Lesbian and still play football, lift weights, or do anything else associated with male gender. Why is being Trans better than being Lesbian? Is it just a matter of taste, like chocolate vs. Vanilla?
Congratulations on having a literary agent and a writer assisting you craft and share your writing for your book. I appreciate you and your experience(s)!
Cheers and keep standing strong 💜
Sticking strictly to the literature. I'm refering to 100 years of sexology. The research by Ray Blanchard and Fruend before him. My own experieve as a homosexual transsexual. The new type which has emerged due to gender ideology over the last 10 years.
No their isn't a transsexual or gynandromorphs child.
Their has been and still is within the literature. Sex non conforming usualy boys, and the DSM. Those that were aware that they didn't fit within the expectations of their sex. Importantly prior to the onset of tanner stage one.
They will in all circumstances have attraction to men. In science we call this homosexuality.
If that persisted into adulthood past tanner stage 3 onwards. We call it persistent homosexual gender identity Disorder.
The term now used by mainstream sexologists is, Early Onset.
Blaire fits this from her accounts of their childhood, as did myself.
When the likes of Alexis Blake say that they now in the mid 20s says that they hadn't heard of trans untill they were 13. Raises alarm bells. They were in a happy egalitarian gay identity relationship.
What are we looking at. What influence did social media play, and would they of transitioned before social media and queer theory.
Blaire was probably enevitable given her early history.
So was I.
Most including the majority of the autohetersexual females not.
Most including most of the autoheterosexual males not.
I refer to this as organic and non organically induced.
I.e
Gender ideology
Thank you for sharing this! I appreciate your willingness for dialogue. I guess I have a major disagreement however:
“I always tell you the difference between a transsexual and transgender is transsexuals want to just fit in, pass as we say, know who we are and move on with life.”
I guess I just don’t agree. Most of these trans activists want to fit in and pass, and most “gender critical transsexuals” want all the same demands the transgender activists want: 1. Other people to let them in opposite sex spaces 2. Other people to call them their cross-sex pronouns of choice and a man if they’re a woman/woman if they’re a man. 3. To redefine sex as stereotypes 4. To redefine feelings as reality. Sure, maybe some trans people kindly ask to be called their opposite-sex pronouns, or to be let in opposite-sex spaces, and others scream/demand it: but both treat refusals like an attack or insult, and all think that what you do, act like, look like, or feel like defines your gender- which it factually doesn’t. I guess the idea that nouveau-transgender people have caused this backlash bc they’re doing it all wrong is denialism- I think they’re actually taking the work of transsexuals (who proselytized and sold their transitions just like the trans influencers of today and used pretty much the same language and had the same demands) are just bringing all that to its logical conclusion and being blamed for all of it. Like, no, the autistic teenagers with blue hair screaming about needing gender affirming care are not responsible for this. People who started selling and proselytizing their transsexual identities in the 80’s and 90’s are. I just think blaming young people and people who are stranger than you is a human instinct but ultimately a denial of one’s responsibility.
Respect! Looking forward to your book.
God forbid you’re a real person who thinks for yourself and doesn’t make being trans your whole personality. Small-minded people are judgmental. Reasonable people are open-minded.
Hello. I appreciate that you have been courageous enough to speak out. Your status lends immense credibility. If not you then who would be credible enough to speak critically about a trans person's experience?